In my entire lifetime till now ((which is to say not very long)) i've been searching for what makes my life purposeful and what makes it good. Intrigued, i have done some research in search for my answer. And last night, i think i might have found my answer.
In one talk that i listened to, i learnt that what makes our lives interesting and worthwhile is built upon 4 pillars: purpose, belonging, storytelling and transcendence. Not very sure how transcendence play a part here but i think purpose and belonging are the main framework for a "good life". In another talk, i learnt about this guy rick warren he actually donated much of his wealth away and said that he's purpose is to serve. And this really resonated within me. He says "we are the stewards of our lives" and he says that when we give generously, we get happiness and the meaning of life.
Another thing i found out is that people who constantly seeks out for happiness are often unhappy because they try to find ways to be happy that results in them not being themselves and in turn not having that sense of purpose and belonging. And so, i think i should stop worry about leading a "happy" life but rather try my best to give generously and serve others. Because its only through giving and servicing others can i truly make a difference to the society.
I lack a sense of belonging as of now because im not sure who i am and what i want to be. But then again, a sense of belonging can be instilled through servicing others. Through servicing, i feel more attuned to the society and maybe one day ill find where i belong. And when that day comes, ill come to realise what is the "happy life" and what is the "good life"
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